2021.12.03 03:34 Ancient-Apartment-23 False rumours still following me
I used to work on ships. Way back when, when I was still in training, I worked on a ship with a scumbag officer. He’d get bored a few weeks into a trip and essentially do social experiments on the crew by starting rumours. Unfortunately, I caught his attention and he started a rumour about me banging a married shipmate. I can’t even begin to describe how ridiculous that idea is - not only would I not interfere with someone else’s relationship, I literally don’t date or anything. I’m late 20s and I’ve never even kissed anyone before. Due to some childhood trauma, any romantic or sexual type of interaction literally gives me panic attacks (yes, I’m in therapy). To make matters worse, I hadn’t even met that married dude when the rumours started. I was friendly with him but no friendlier than I was with plenty of other people onboard.
He’d also harass me about my work. I didn’t report to him, technically I had the same rank as him but with vastly different duties. I’m trying to think how I might’ve pissed him off. Sure, I was a bit green but it got to the point where the captain had to tell him off about how he was treating me. I got excellent reviews from my management and other colleagues.
Anyways, I thought I had left this all behind me. Only, I find out that that officer is still shit talking me to everyone I’ve ever met. It’s been years. I know that you can’t win everyone over but I’ve never experienced someone hating me so much and for so long. Reputation is everything in my field, and even though I don’t go to sea anymore I still work with a lot of the same people.
I know that there’s nothing I can do about his behaviour, but I’m so frustrated I want to cry. It would be one thing if he just passively disliked me, but actively starting rumours about a subject that’s so triggering for me just feels so cosmically unfair.
Meanwhile, this is the same guy that propositions women that I know while having a wife and young kids at home. I tell myself he’s projecting to make myself feel better…
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2021.12.03 03:34 puremysticalmayhem Really not good at asking for help, but we need help. My kids dad took his own life last week, his pain was just too much for him. Proof if needed. We have a go fund me. Kind words very helpful.
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2021.12.03 03:34 LevelTo Today after hours Yahoo dropped a bombshell stating Truth Social and Rumble (CFVI) will share infrastructure. This after CFVI was shorted to shit today and now they’re trapped! Did Trump play the shorts? I think so.
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2021.12.03 03:34 Sir-R_Ender Accidentally released the pokemon holding my everstone and destiny knot. If anyone has spares i'll trade for 5IV shellder (no rock blast)
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2021.12.03 03:34 zzyoyozz1 how can a student applying out of state receive financial aid?
hello everyone, i’m currently a high school senior applying to colleges and i’ve taken a particular interest in a university in illinois. i live in california at the moment and have lived here for years. i’ve been trying to research how students applying out of state can receive financial aid but haven’t had much luck. my family and i cannot afford the full out of state tuition so i am trying to find the best possible way around it. advice would be greatly appreciated!
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2021.12.03 03:34 Pamplem0usse__ No longer nevermets 🇺🇲❤🏴
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2021.12.03 03:34 shnurr214 Today I machine gun glitched a bonfire duelist
First time I've ever bow glitched someone to be honest but im so tired of damn bonfire duelists that feel like camping at the bonfire with a 30% hp, reinforcement level, and level advantage that decide to start summoning blues or something when the do actually start losing.
I do not regret my decision. Fuck bonfire duelists
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2021.12.03 03:34 No_Suggestion6008 My cure
Hi all. I used to come on this forum about 4 years ago. I suffered from POIS for about a decade from 2007 to 2017. It is hell it ruined my youth and prevented me from having a normal sex life. After any orgasm I would get brain fog and feel "off" for at least three days and unable to interact normally. It had a very binary on/off effect for me, I could be feeling POIS one instant and then in the next it would disappear and I would feel completely normal, able to interact again.
By the end I wasn't coming out of the brain fog at all. In the last two or three months before it finally ended I was in a permanent state of POIS despite not having any orgasms.
I was desperate and I signed up for a silent meditation retreat. I've been a meditator on and off for years and had always thought of doing one but this was a crisis that had reached its climax I had no idea what I was going to do.
Anyway long story short I had a spiritual experience during the retreat. Not related to the POIS specifically but it healed some fundamental things in me and the POIS never returned.
Today I still feel some mood difference when I have been orgasming frequently versus abstaining, but it feels within the normal range. None of the crazy stuff where I can't express myself or talk to anyone and the next I'm completely normal.
My solution was unconventional but wanted to put it out there for anyone it may speak to as I was looking at this forum and remembering how much I suffered with this for years and years and years and I am so sorry for everyone still experiencing it. The numbness is hell and it just goes on for days. No one deserves this affliction.
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2021.12.03 03:34 stfufannin Anyone else buy the TL Yarn Crafts Sunsoaked Collection??
I noticed from the start it was pretty smelly, like in the worst way possible. It smelled a little bit like rotten eggs, so I undid all the hanks and aired them out for quite a bit of time. Put them in a plastic tub for storage. Just opened it and almost puked by how bad it smells!! Is this normal?! I paid over $300 for this collection and I’m pretty disappointed at the door
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