Stuck between two close friends, who are a couple, and one is a problem gambler

2022.01.28 18:48 LaCaipirinha Stuck between two close friends, who are a couple, and one is a problem gambler

Two of my closest friends are a couple and I am equally close to each of them. One of them has a long standing addiction to gambling and has now for the third time asked me for money , telling me not to tell the other partner.
The first time I gave the money, when the other partner found out it threatened our friendship. The second time I told him that I wouldn't give them money because I was worried it would do more harm than good, and told his partner. This led to another huge meltdown and this time I almost lost the gamblers friendship.
Today I have been asked for the third time, this is maybe 1 year after the last. I'm not sure whether to offer to pay a specific bill, lend him the money but not tell his partner, or what. I feel like I need to do something that doesn't make me feel like I am just being selfish, or patronising, because I really don't want to lose the friendship of the problem gambler, gambling aside he is one of my closest friends.
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2022.01.28 18:48 brutus_the_bear Pierre Poilievre speaks regarding "Well Poisoning"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7R-K7_gvb44
Afternoon to all in the Ottawa River Valley and la belle paysage francaise, I just wanted to share this clip in addition to an impression that I felt has been missed by many over the last couple of days.
In short there is a very real political phenomenon called Well Poisoning wherein certain bad actors are highlighted (or in some cases even inserted, a process sometimes known as astroturfing) into protests or other movements in order to give media outlets or security forces an easy target to discredit a movement as a whole.
We know from being Canadian that one refugee with an illness or with a racist sentiment does not make all refugees bad, we know that one drunk driver on new years eve does not make all Canadians irresponsible. This same logic applies to this convoy. And while I personally don't agree with the movement as a whole... I know that if the CBC shows me a clip of two guys in trump hats urinating on the sidewalk, that doesn't discredit the hundreds of thousands of Canadians that are quietly and actively resonating with this movement. I listened to the call in livestream last night and I'm certain that the 11 year old girl calling in to voice her support is not in fact a fascist sympathizer.
Secondly regarding Canadian Law and what this movement (I believe) represents, there is something called the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms, this document was entered into the Canadian Constitution in 1982 and it speaks about personal rights. This is a very clear and important distinction. The Canadian Charter refers to rights of the person. That is to say the rights of individuals. The Canadian Charter offers no rights to collectives, groups, movements, convoys or any of the such. There is a right to peaceful assembly, but that belongs to the individuals.
Why is this important? It's important because we as a society often feel that there is a social contract, act a certain way, pay it forward and watch society as a whole flourish. That is a beautiful sentiment and I support it entirely (along with vaccination)
However society as a whole has no rights under the Canadian Charter, only the individual does. The Charter was drafted in this way thanks in large part by the work of Pierre Elliot Trudeau (Justin's Father). I would ask that all parties commenting or following this political movement over the weekend remember this fact going forward. The right to life liberty and security of the person is an individual right, society has no such right.
Now as I go forward and list the contents of the Canadian Charter (It's important to know your rights) I think everyone here can acknowledge that while perhaps a necessary action to prevent against the threat of SARSCOV2, the Canadian Charter has been significantly ignored in the name of public health.
Namely mobility rights, the right to travel in and out of Canada and to earn a living in any province within Canada, as well as the security of the person (interpreted by the courts to include the right to refuse any medical procedure) There are of course other violations of less constitutional statutes like genetic non-discrimination etc... And I do think it's strange to arrive at a time where breeches of "simple" laws by the government is normalized in the wake of breaches of the constitution act itself.
That being said, it may not appear at this moment that this matters to you, but rest assured, there are countries where the citizens are not so lucky to live under a constitution with inalienable personal rights. Those countries may even be more competitive on an international level by treating their people more as pawns then as citizens. Some of you may know of a large industrious country in the east wherein this is the case.
My understanding is: that it is far more convenient for the government there because they do not need to acknowledge these personal rights of the people when making policy that favors their party.
It makes sense. It also makes sense for certain countries (like our own) to be competitively compelled to emulate this system in order to gain an equivalent level internationally... This requires seizure of these rights, this requires erosion of our rights... That may even be necessary in the long term for survival, and that is a conversation worth having transparently, but for now?
The Canadian Charter of Right and Freedoms is the foundation of Canada. This current movement to remind the government to return rights that have been stepped on or stepped over or ignored or mandated or superseded by alleged misuse of the emergencies act... This is what Canadians are rallying to protest.
Yes some of them can't voice it, and yes they will be given the front and center spot on CBC most likely. But others feel it... It's not something that everyone can express, but the lack of freedom resonates with people and I believe this is what we are seeing now.
The idea that it's A vs B, vaccinated against unvaccinated, Trudeau against whoever, it's all a mischaracterization by convenience. Contrived, Designed? Who cares? The fact of the matter is, I understand why people are resonating with this rally because ultimately the Canadian Charter has been pushed aside in the name of the good of society. But the thing is, in Canada society has no rights, only the people do.
Thank you, please be safe.
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I've been doing some research and I still don't know where to go.
I'm looking for a simple 2 channel mixer, that I can use for scratching. Preferably under $100. Maybe around $150 if it's worth it. Fuck it $200 if it's really worth it
I have a stanton str8-100 turntable and I'm looking to get another turntable soon, but I just want a mixer with a fader so I can do some scratching. Right now I've been using no fader, or the phone/line switch as a fader, but it's an uncomfortable reach.
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Cheapest new options I've found are Numark M2 & Behringer NOX101
but from research it seems like those might be kinda shit and I should look for something used like a allen & heath xone 22 or 23.
Or just get any cheap mixer that can take an innofader and buy an innofader.
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so of those 3 options which should i do, or a 4th option if you have a better recommendation
I'm not looking to do dj shows and shit I just wanted a fader for scratching to use in my beats
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